Don't drown

I need affirmation. Sometimes I think too much and let others' opinions affect me. Sometimes it gets too overwhelming and that sinking feeling is not good at all. I guess I am more of a perfectionist as I keep looking at the weaknesses of others...wondering why people couldn't be more responsible and their work habits and attitude need some polishing. This has got to stop because I can choose not to care about it and just let them realize that I am not a say YES person every time. Just very disappointed. I guess I just have to chill and not worry so much. The stress level is way too HIGH. I got to focus on the more important matters and my loved ones which are definitely worthy of my time and effort. JIAYOU!